Sunday 2nd October Doctors’ round today, they tell me that it’s now timed for me to leave on Thursday and that I’ve been booked for a clinic (when they will tell me what’s to happen next re Radiotherapy etc.,) at the end of this month and in the meantime I will be given more info regarding scans etc,.
Monday 3rd October Apart from an aggravating delay in setting up the follow-on chemo it’s been a good day with a visit from an old friend who always keeps me chuckling. Another old friend from my photography side ‘phoned to report on our annual get together at Banbury in the centre of the country. The meeting is called the BOF’S – which we tell those who ask stands for Best of Friends – we all know that it really means Boring Old Farts – we were all pushed aside about 11/12 years ago when a new “regime” took over the management of our professional body (British Institute of Professional Photography – BIPP, for short) and decided that we were all too long in the tooth. Truth to tell they were afraid of our ‘power’ as the Admissions and Qualifications Board as we decided who were to become members and judged the work for Licentiateship, Associateship and Fellowship – it was an excellent system and maintained the high standards our professional body deserved. Incidentally, many of us have heard since that disbanding us was the worst thing they had ever done. Anyway, I was sorry to miss the Banbury meeting as it sounds as though it was a good ‘do’.
Tuesday 4th October Doctors’ round today say maybe I can go home tomorrow! I said that I thought my Intrathecal (spinal injection) had been booked for Thursday, to which I was informed “Don’t worry, we can fix that.” The nurse who was in the room and overheard this said “It’ll be Thursday, believe me.” So there we are, as usual we just have to wait and see. A maintenance man came into the ward as he does every day and turns all the taps on full on the washbasin in the ward as well as the washbasin and shower in the bathroom and leaves them running. A medical assistant comes into the ward to talk to the other patient and turns off the taps. I explain that the maintenance man comes in and does that every day to check for Legionaires’ Disease. The medical assistant had never heard of this! I must say that the cleaning regime on this ward is excellent.
Wonders never cease! Now I’m told that I will be going home tomorrow – providing I’m still O.K. after the usual test and if the intrathecal goes well – I should be home by 7’ish. Today looks like being the last day of the excellent weather we’ve been having for the last week or so – shame to have missed it but I have been able to watch over the city from my 10th floor ‘penthouse suite’ because of the flat terrain, I can see for miles.
Brenda arrived after attending the funeral of a long-time photographer friend (Philip Way) in North London this morning and brought good wishes from the many of our friends that were there together with a giant ‘Get Well’ card from the Bof’s meeting at Banbury. In situations such as this it makes on e realise that because of your profession, your clubs – with me Rotary International and Freemasonry, just how many friends you have all over the world. I feel very blessed to so many wonderful friends and family who care – the care and concern of the grandchildren is especially touching. Anyway, I feel fighting fit just now so watch out!
Wednesday 5th October So, here we go with what may well be the last day as an in-patient. Woke at 5.30 this morning, snoozed ‘til 6.15 and the had the usual checks and donation to the blood-sucker – my line fortunately flowing well. Around 8.45another nurse came for more blood needed for (I guess) different tests before my spinal injection at around 4.00 p.m.
The chemo going through at the moment is due to finish around 1.00 p.m. followed by a flush and then another bag of ‘jollop’ – sorry don’t know what that one is or what it’s for. With any luck everything should be finished by about 2.30 which leaves plenty of time for my 4.00 p.m. appointment with the ‘needle lady’.
Just as an aside, as a one-time press man I noted an interesting expression on the radio just now. “If you haven’t got anything good to say about a person … let’s hear it!”
2.15 All checks again, everything O.K. 2.35 An extremely attractive young lady doctor came to check me over and make sure that I know what’s happening re medication at home, District nurse visits and blood test twice a week at the hospital. 2.45 Wasn’t quite finished another flush drip for ten minutes. There followed a frustrating hour and a half while I waited to be taken to the isolation ward where I have the injection –the doctor who was to do the procedure was with a new admission patient and was tied up with that. The trouble is that there is a time-limit for this to go ahead, apparently it can’t be done after 5.00 p.m. I haven’t exactly found out why. The injection was made at 4.45p.m. and then a total rest, lying down for an hour afterwards. There is always a wait for the discharge paperwork plus a discussion with the pharmacist regarding the ‘take home’ medication. There was a delay with the buses going to the Park & Ride so we eventually arrived home (bliss!) at 7.55 p.m.
Thursday 6th October The first day home always seems to go by in a flash. We went into town to deal with the bank and do a bit of shopping. Got two large tins of Quality Street to give to the staff with thank you cards for the two wards on which I’ve been cared for. I’m back for blood tests tomorrow so can deliver them then.
Friday 7th October Very strange occurrence overnight. I got out of bed around 2 o’clock to go for a ‘wee’. Eventually found the bedroom door but thought I was still in hospital as I got into the hallway I was sure there were curtains, as you get in a ward, either side of me but I couldn’t find the bathroom. By now I was getting desperate but noticed an outside door (we have a door that leads onto the balcony at the back of the house) thank goodness, I thought I shall just have to pee outside but the door was locked. I retraced my steps and decided to try another direction. Success! I had found a room that was very strangely (I thought) exactly like the en-suite shower room that we have in our bedroom at home. Mission accomplished, returned to bed – weird!
To hospital later on for a blood test taking the syringe with me, so that the nurse at the haematology unit can inject me. There is a dose with a syringe for each day kept in the fridge at home for the district nurse so on a hospital day I take it to hospital in a wine cooler. On arrival I reminded the nurse that I had the syringe with me for her to use, she said she would wait for the blood test result first. It was one of those days when instead of getting the blood test result in a half to three quarters of an hour it took an hour and a quarter. On top of that the nurse said that they wanted a decision from a doctor because one of the readings was high. Finding a doctor to give an opinion took another hour and a half, it was then decided that I definitely didn’t need the injection and I was to call the district nurse when I returned home to tell them not to come until further notice.
Saturday 8th October Another weird night experience – this time I tried to find a door, presumably to the bathroom, at either end of the window which overlooks the garden. I have no idea why but this time I just gave up and took the correct route to the bathroom. It was a quiet day at home today, resting. I have been very lucky concerning side-effects because I just haven’t had any. However since this last chemo session I’ve been getting quite nasty headaches, sometimes when I wake up or at odd times during the day, there seems to be nothing in particular that sparks them off. The best course of action appears to be to lie down for about half an hour and it lessens even if it doesn’t disappear altogether. I try not to take Paracetamol although that will do the trick, it’s just that I feel I’m taking enough pills already – about twenty a day!
Sunday 9th October A quiet day again, dear friends came to visit in the afternoon and stayed for tea and cakes. We had a good natter and more than a few laughs about our experiences as portrait photographers. He has experienced radiotherapy himself so I was able to ask some of the queries I had and get answers from the horse’s mouth as it were.
Monday 10th October Today was the day to catch up with my blog, which I have now done and have vowed to myself not to let it get so far behind again. In the afternoon Brenda and I went to a village garden centre where it is a proper nursery – meaning that everything on sale is what they have grown themselves from tiny plants to large trees. It is set in acres of rolling lawns with large ponds and some modern sculpture dotted around. One of us was attracted by the fact that at this time of the year, each year, all plants are half price. Of course we came home with more stuff for the garden.
I can smell a chicken curry being prepared so I’ll close for now and let you know what happens at tomorrow’s blood test.